http://patjissi.net/friendship-to-deaf-ears/ the ramblings of little miss patji Thu, 19 Jan 2012 04:42:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://patjissi.net/friendship-to-deaf-ears/comment-page-1/#comment-5 Jenny Thu, 22 Apr 2010 02:10:11 +0000 http://patjissi.net/?p=51#comment-5 As someone who's been on both ends of the situation, your spot is a difficult one to be in. If you say too much, you get accused of not being supportive of being mean. If you don't say enough, you're letting your friend get hurt. I was with a guy who was a total jerkwad, and now that I look back, I wish my friends had been tougher on me, as in, give me an ultimatum of some sort. It would've been hella annoying then, but it would've saved me a lot of heartbreaks and tears later on. As someone who’s been on both ends of the situation, your spot is a difficult one to be in. If you say too much, you get accused of not being supportive of being mean. If you don’t say enough, you’re letting your friend get hurt. I was with a guy who was a total jerkwad, and now that I look back, I wish my friends had been tougher on me, as in, give me an ultimatum of some sort. It would’ve been hella annoying then, but it would’ve saved me a lot of heartbreaks and tears later on.

]]> http://patjissi.net/friendship-to-deaf-ears/comment-page-1/#comment-4 Patji Wed, 21 Apr 2010 06:59:26 +0000 http://patjissi.net/?p=51#comment-4 Exactly, but it doesn’t make it any less difficult to know that people would hurt themselves like this continuously. Especially when it could be resolved by taking the advice they were given upon their request. Exactly, but it doesn’t make it any less difficult to know that people would hurt themselves like this continuously. Especially when it could be resolved by taking the advice they were given upon their request.

]]> http://patjissi.net/friendship-to-deaf-ears/comment-page-1/#comment-2 gem2niki Wed, 21 Apr 2010 06:54:54 +0000 http://patjissi.net/?p=51#comment-2 you would think they would have a guilty conscience under their mind....but chose to ignore it until they see what you see? you would think they would have a guilty conscience under their mind….but chose to ignore it until they see what you see?

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